Its all about everything . . .

Love…and it makes me go WOW when I think of this word. It’s not just a word, it’s a lot of emotions wrapped-up in something very small. It’s so much in so less that it makes it so so complicated. But if we talk about that #one thing for love…for me it would be LIVE. I would want to LIVE for my love. I want to be there for them….forever.   I can’t just not be there for them. If not me then who? So this question makes me go bonkers, “if not me then who?” But then again I don’t think any of us are irreplaceable. But we all have our own roles to play in every place and time. Coming back to the #one thing for love. So as I said I will LIVE and not merely LIVE but LIVE for them. And I am not trying to be a saint here by trying to LIVE for others. I guess people we love cannot be counted as others , they infect are a part of our own being. They make our existence more meaningful and worthy. By making them a reason for your LIVING you are giving them the most important asset you have,

The past, the present and the future are really one: they are today. Harriet Beecher Stowe Wow…does not everything boil down to this one thing. If we really follow this we will have a good past and a better tomorrow and but obvious the perfect today. If there can be one mantra for a peaceful life, it will be this. Holding on to your past will not give you anything, we must learn from our past and take ahead the learnings and not the past. It should be a window where we can look every time we need experience. It must not be a wound that needs to be taken care of. I few live in today we will never have any regrets. Always remember something that might look like a mistake today, was something that once gave you happiness. Don’t regret, rather remember and rejoice the moment that once brought you something you so desired. So forget your past, cherish your future and live for today…as today all that you have in your hand! This post was selected for....

All work was done, everything on its proper place, all arrangements to have a good start to the next day were done. She looked at everything , heaved a sigh of relief and moved towards the bed. As she was about to pull her blanket and get all cozy, the doorbell rang. She was irritated and while thinking who could come visiting her in this untimely hour moved towards the door. She struggled with all her locks that she had put on just now but by the time she opened she saw no one outside. She is Stooped towards the lift and saw the lift just left her floor. Disappointed she came back. In her head she was still cursing the stranger for not having patience. She was trying to think who could it be, when she suddenly noticed something strange. She was surprised how could everything go back to being messy in such a small amount of time. She had just put everything in its place. Even the veggies that she had chopped for the next day were back to being all uncut and intact back in the f

“Crying is for plain women. Pretty women go shopping.” ― Oscar Wilde     OMG…just read this and was like…ohhh so this is actually an universal technique…I thought it was just personal to me.. I do this quite often…..however I do add a personal touch to it by eating….I mean gorging on deliciously fattening food….. Which I otherwise avoid during my sane times.   So here you are… we girls do a lot for others….we shop for the family… cook for them…clean and just practically live running around them….and after all this we are expected to look all prim and proper all the time. And how can I forget we need  to be petite and polite at the same time…its really difficult for me…I can be polite only when I am well feed and full and petite doesn’t go with this…   Times have changed since we were little kids…we have grown up seeing our Moms…lead a very simple life….a life were things were bought only as per necessities and not as per desire or choice….but times have changed ..today we

The secrets of success are a good wife and a steady job. My wife told me. -Howard Nemerov Oh how I love this quote and how I wish this was true. In my quest for quotes for every day, I keep googling for the same and I found this as the “Funny quote of the day”. Although it brought a smile to my face too but in retrospection I started to accuse myself of hypocrisy. Why does this have to land in the “funny quote” section. Is this not the reality of life, don’t we all say behind every successful man is a women. Then how come doing something in understanding with one’s wife be wrong or for that matter funny. Also a man who listens to his wife should not be considered any less of an man, in fact he a more self-assured and confident person as he is understands the importance and role of a life partner. Your life partner must be as a much a part of your decision as part of your life. But then a little humor never killed anyone. So just read it….and laugh it off. We women can endur

If you want people to change the way people respond to you, change the way you respond to people. -Timothy Leary Right now this seems to be the virtual key to my happiness. But then I have my doubts, not each time I feel good ends up in good. So I would say you have to be super cautious when choosing a subject from whom you are expecting this. On a superficial level we can always be congenial with one and all, but then limit the public whom you actually allow to become part of your life. Also rather than having anticipation of someone changing, because you have been really nice with them is   like “You expecting a lion to not eat you because you have been vegetarian all your life!”. So basically how people feel, respond or act has nothing to do with you. It is all about the kind of experience they have had in life, the kind of upbringing they have had and many more such things that cannot be changed by you and have nothing to do with you. So stop stressing over all these thin